Are you Cute, Hot, Pretty, or Beautiful?

At some point in our lives, even the plainest among us has been called one (or more) of the above adjectives, usually by the men in our lives or by random dudes who just feel like sharing their opinions..
It can be confusing to figure out if there's a hierarchy (is it better to be beautiful or hot?), or if some terms overlap (does "cute" mean someone pretty whose personality is fetching, too?). You won't really get any coherent answers to that question, because, as we know, not all words mean the same things to different people, and, for example, not all men think "pretty" is better than "hot" or that "hot" is better than "cute."

But this isn't about dealing with whois who? But rather it's about spilling the beans about which one you get the most. I wouldn't lose sleep over it, but after you answer, tell me how you feel about the compliment you get. Do you wish it were something else or do you wish men would stop labeling you?

Are You Called Cute, Pretty, Beautiful or Hot?
Hmmmm!!!

No! Life Isn't Fair:

Yesterday night I decided to go to the avenues with my freind and her baby, to return some stuff I bought..While we were walking to the shop, I usually don't really notice the people around I just see a bunch of heads when its really crowded..when all of a sudden this familiar face approaches me: Friend: "Hi, N, how are you?? its been a longtime! Me:" Oh hey! I'm good, how are things with you? How's work? Friend: "Wala el hamdila, nushkur Allah, I resigned 2 months ago" (She's Egyptian btw), Me: "Oh, God you too?!", Friend: "Yes, what to do my dear", Me: "Well, I wish you all the best, and glad to run into you", Friend: "Yes, me too, bye!", Me: "Bye!"..
Well, we went along to our shop we got what we wanted, shopped some more... (lazem girls:p) On our way back and right infront of Debenhams, there she was my freind, selling perfume to people!;/
You see, I used to work in a Bank, and she used to work with me at the same Department, but after seeing her spraying perfume to strangers, which was her new job/maybe part-time job I swear I felt like crying.."3aini dama3at". I was already having a bad day, and thought by going out my mood will somehow get better, but unfortunately it got worse;/
You see people, life is not fair to anyone of us, we try our best to fix things and to do the best out what we have..Try to be positive, and we are blessed to have our health and our family and freinds around us. When you think life is screwing up with you, say Hamdilah, cuz there are those people with really much more worse problems.
So try to enjoy life, and don't let those little things ruin your day..
Enjoy the rest of the weekend folks!
xoxo, N

Stereo Love:

I'm so inlove with this song, I have it on my ipod, and I have to listen to it almost Everyday! It makes me Highhh! :)

Have a Lovely Weekend Peeps!:

Have a good, relaxing, chilling, sexy, lovely, pretty weekend people!
Enjoy;)

El Dinya Mateswa!:

Recommended by a Friend;)

Smile:

Something Funny to share with my Blogger Friends:))

Embarak 3alaikum el Shahar:D

:)

Soo NERVOUS!:

Tomorow I'm gonna start my new job, I'm sooo Nervous!!! I've been sooo HYPER ALL WEEKEND hahaha, I hope it goes well!!!
Wish me Luckzz:D
xoxo-N

YES MAN!:

Today I got the chance to watch this VERY FUNNY moviee! I'm not a big fan of Jim Carrey but in this movie he was Really Funny! I enjoyed it:D
It's about a man who says "NO" to everything he comes across on in his life, until he's forced by a freind to go to a seminar where he learns to say "YES!" to everrything he comes across off, Ofcourse that wasn't really the idea of the seminar..You can't say YES! to everyything and everyone...But it sure did change his life! and takes him through a new path in his life...Really fun movie to watch with some freinds:))
So enjoy it Folks!
xoxo- N

Very Touching Story:

I have received this email from a cousin of mine, very touching, enjoy reading:)

"The Last Wow "

by Naif Al-Mutawa


The tumors had been growing for as long as I had known him. They had spread wherever they could, blocking every effort to reduce their size and number. They were entrenched in the fabric of our society, draining whatever of life’s resources to keep them alive and growing. Dr. Jaafar Behbehani desperately wanted to stop them them. But he knew that the tumors of unprofessionalism had their own agenda.

The tumors he saw were an invisible plague visited on the most vulnerable people, made double victims of their psychological problems by a largely unregulated gaggle of pseudo-professionals who offered psychological advice under a dozen different self-descriptions.

Spending untold hours at the Kuwait University Faculty of Medicine, he invested his personal time repairing the damage done by those who are the least among us. He never charged his patients. But the damage from the unseen psychological tumors multiplied much faster than one man could possibly hope to undo. So Dr. Jaafar decided to think a generation ahead. He would win his war by recruiting young professionals who he would mold in the ethic of his own image. I was one of the soldiers he enlisted. Some of us were rebels looking for a cause. And after all, who could say no to a man like Dr. Jaafar? Who could say no to the man who we, as his students, wanted to emulate?

One day, he surprised me at my cubby. I was writing afterhours, and he had just finished seeing a patient in his office. I was frantically working on what would become my first book, an illustrated children’s book about defining ourselves by what makes us alike rather than what separates us. He was curious. I was 24, and naïve, and full of more passion than logic. I told him that I was going to change Kuwait with my writings; writings that at that point that were little more than a few scribbles and some words.

“Wow!” he said. “Change Kuwait? Why not change the world? I like that!”

He liked a lot of things. He had a knack for making people feel special for who they are as well as what they do.

Two years ago we finally sat down to deal with those unseen tumors. We came up with a plan to change the psychology landscape in Kuwait. I called it the Sultan Center method of psychological services. Before Sultan Center, the supermarkets in Kuwait were abysmal. The Sultans built the best supermarket in Kuwait and forced the rest of the supermarkets to either change or go out of business. And it worked.

Dr. Jaafar hated that analogy.

So we decided on a division of responsibilities. I would be responsible for the business side of our future, and he the aesthetic. The clinic was to look like Dr. Jaafar dresses, simple and elegant, the look of someone entirely professional and comfortable with himself. Everything ran smoothly until he called me one day in October of 2008. He wanted me in to help choose the color of the paint on the wall. You really don’t want me doing that I told him. He replied that I would be the one that had to live with the colors. He was sending a message. It wasn’t about the colors. I could see it in his eyes. Any question from me would have been met by silence, perhaps a smile. He had shared all that he intended to.

The following week he announced a leave of absence from the Medical School. I immediately went to see him. “Its my throat,” he told me as he cleared it. “My throat hurts, he said. It really hurts.” He traveled abroad for therapy. While he was planning the removal of the unseen tumor that had lodged itself in his profession, another tumor found its way into his body. It wasn’t his throat. He was protecting me.

We spoke daily until he started his therapy and then on weekends. And soon I started receiving updates from his family when words weren’t easy for him anymore. And God knows, they weren’t easy for any of us.

Our clinic opened in May. He was not there but I took pictures and shared with him the surprising influx of patients that had come through the doors in the first months. He was very happy. “Wow!,” he said in his trademark way. The tumors of unprofessionalism he had been fighting for years were shrinking. He was winning that war. But another tumor was quietly and decidedly growing inside his body. Soon, he slipped into a coma.

I saw Dr. Jaafar for the last time in July. He had awoken from the coma but was having difficulty staying awake. His vocabulary was down to a handful of words. His family tried to keep him awake. But he would close his eyes. I went to his bedside with my laptop to show him pictures of my children who he had always treated like his own. He kept his eyes open. I then showed him a clip of THE 99 animation that he had encouraged for years. He watched and when it ended he said “Wow!” He was down to a handful of words, but a sense of wonderment was still part of his being. Wow indeed. Even as he was dying he was encouraging me. You are, you have always been “the Wow,” Dr. Jaafar.

Dr. Jaafar Behbehani passed away on August 7th, 2009. But before he did, he made giant steps toward challenging the countless tumors that plagued so many Kuwaitis who were badly served by those who prey on the insecurities of others. But in the end, he was unable to fight the physical one that was affecting him. It is perhaps one of the most painful feelings to lose someone as close as he was to me. His support was endless, his sense of wonderment contagious, his professionalism unmatched, his love abundant and his ability to coach and support and cajole inspiring. He was one of the most amazing people ever to come into my life. So much of who I am today is because of his love and support.

Dr. Jaafar…Jaafar…if you can hear me, I want to tell you that my throat hurts. It hurts very much.

I miss you.


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E-mail: naif@al-mutawa.com
Web: http://www.al-mutawa.com

To all ya Ladies Out There!:

Tips on:
How To Attract Men To Love ya and To have a Better Relationship:

If you've met a man, and you're unsure about
where things are going, then there's really only
one thing to keep in mind if you like this guy:
ATTRACTION!
What's Attraction??
-Attraction is that magic emotion that we feel
when someone enters our heart and mind in a way
we can't really explain with words...
We all agree ladies? Yes? Good.
Now,
Attraction from a man's perspective is
something that reaches deep inside him and stirs
up emotions he doesn't understand and didn't know
he could feel.
And when he FEELS ATTRACTION for a woman,
he no longer uses his "logical" mind to decide
what he wants when it comes to love and
relationships. But, Attraction takes over and causes him to start
acting and making decisions with his HEART
instead of his MIND.

Starting to get a better sense of what
attraction really is?
Good.

Now, the Real question Ladies...how do you CREATE ATTRACTION inside a
man so that he starts to use less of his MIND
and more of his HEART with you?
Good question.

-The first key to ATTRACTION is to have an
element of UNPREDICTABILITY to you and the time
you spend with a man.
-See... most men, especially older ones, have
seen and done a lot of things with women.
And unfortunately, as a result, lots of these
men have started to assume that most women are the
same when it comes to love and relationships.
When you show up and a man can't fit you
neatly into his categories of women he knows and
does or doesn't like... you very quickly have a
man's ATTENTION.

-But, getting a man's attention is just the first
step.
-The second step is to turn his attention into
INTEREST.
-To do this, most women who men
feel comfortable with and see as "relationship
material" and fall for are women who have a
certain attitude in common.

-This Attitude is: "Playful & Independent."
In short, without this a man won't feel that
being in a relationship with you would simply
be and stay FUN.

And men, being the simple creatures they are,
have to believe that the things they commit to more
of in the future will be FUN for them. And by "Fun",
I mean, is to be yourself, Love yourself! show him what
your hobbies are, show him how much you love your freinds
and family, and ingeneral your Life! Have that Positive Attitude!

-Once you are living the life you want that is
also the kind of fun and exciting life that a man
would be drawn to and want to be a part of, then
a few things will happen:

1) You will start becoming more "Playful &
Independent" without even thinking about it.

2) You will stop doing the things you used to do
that turned men off to the idea of a relationship
with you.

3) You will make a great man feel that intense
gut-level ATTRACTION for you because you will
be doing UNPREDICTABLE things that make you stand
out as different from any other woman he's met.

Ladies once you take care of whats inside, the outside will take care of itself!

Clear out the mental and emotional blocks
that have kept you in bad relationships, and get
back in touch with that loving, open and
irresistible woman inside you who the right man
will naturally be drawn to...

GoodLuck! and God bless!;)
xoxo-N
P.S I feel like a Love Dr right now!:p

Guys who Tweet May find this Funny:

A blogger asked me to check this youtube out about Twittering, heheh thought it woould be funny to share it with you peeeps!
Thanks SuperSonic:)
Enjoy!
Follow me on Twitter: beskoota,Nadia

Summer '09 Beirut:

Those are some fotos i took during my lovely stay at Beirut:p
Enjoy!:)

The Hangover

I saw this movie two weeks ago, its the funniest movie I've seen in ages!! Soo damn funny! Gotta watch it! :)

Lazy B: Beach in Beirut

I'm a beach person, I love to snuggle with my books and magazines and my ipod and just chill by a pool, Lazy B was the perfect place...
Its located @Beirut, Street of Sayda highway.
The beach area wasn't that good, the pool area was quieter, with fewer people, and the pools water was a chiller in this humid hot weather which is perfect! And the best part is "No Kids are Allowed in the Pool". And there's a beautiful section with shades, beds, and a book case, but it's located near the exit which isn't the right place for such a beautiful idea..

Few things i didnt like, was that there's no music, and the pool's water was a bit salty:p
Other than that it was a coolzi place to just chill..
So.. Lazy B, is the place to be:)
I'll post pics soon!!...
xoxo-N

Had Enough From Beirut!!!!

OMG!! I've been here for almost 2 weeks and i'm going crazzzzzyyy!!! the stupid, stupid traafiic!! the stupid sticky humidity!!, the totally insaane drivers makee you wana jump offf the jabal!! SERIOUSLY PPL!! They should put some new rules for their streets, you can barely enjoy the music or your daily day dreaming while your in your car!!:P the kid beggars who don't care if they'll get hit by a car! the motor cyles who rolll right next to you, they can see what your typing on your BB. OMG!!!
Let that alone!
I had manyy incidents one of them is having an internet connection: P.S (If you come to Lebanon trust No Body!) they screw up with ur head, they steal your money! and then they act all nice after you scream at them and proving that they're wrong!!
Finally, traveling with 1 parent is a hassel alone, then another parent comes along, now the fun begins...!!! (I Love my parents soo much!!!) But, actually staying with them 24/7 kills me:( especially while they're gettin older, they have many MANY opinions! For example!! when is a good time to wash my hair! "YESS!!!"
OK! i feel a bit better spilling all my dirt, let me see if I can post some pictures for you guys to enjoy hahaha:*
xoxo-N ;)